Birth Parent Blogs
If you’ve just found out you’re pregnant and you weren’t planning it, you’re probably wondering what you should do and looking things up online like “giving baby up for adoption”. Maybe you’re thinking about giving your baby up for adoption, and that’s a very loving choice to make. The language we use to describe adoption is important. This is especially true when it comes to phrases like “giving baby up for adoption.” You might wonder what it is like to do this, and you’re not alone.
Lifetime Adoption has been helping women just like you find adoptive parents for their children for over 35 years. In that time, we’ve seen the language of adoption change as much as the process itself. One of the many things we’ve learned over the years is that you are not “giving up!”
Why Choosing Adoption is Not ‘Giving a Baby Up For Adoption’
When you choose adoption, you have chosen to make a new life for your baby — and for yourself! So instead of saying “giving the baby up for adoption,” we say “placing a baby for adoption.”
While the adoption decision can feel overwhelming, the actual adoption process doesn’t need to be. At Lifetime Adoption, our caring professionals understand the anxiety that comes with your adoption choice. We are committed to providing expectant mothers with support throughout the entire adoption process. Your Adoption Coordinator is here to offer you non-judgmental support and guidance during each step.
Choosing adoption is a positive, selfless decision. Plus, a modern open adoption plan, in which the baby is born with the adoptive family already chosen and waiting at the hospital, is a beautiful and special thing.
When you use Lifetime’s adoption services — whether you’re just a few months pregnant or thinking of adoption for your child — we’ll help you set up an adoption plan. Lifetime also helps you select the right adoptive parents for your baby or child. All of our hopeful adoptive parents go through a lengthy, detailed process before they can adopt. In-depth screening, interviews, and background checks are done on every hopeful parent, as well as a home study.
By reading this blog, you’ll learn more about how adoption works, from when you discover you are pregnant, all the way to maintaining a future relationship with your baby’s adoptive family. Stay informed, get tips on pregnancy and adoption, and hear stories from other birth parents on modern open adoption with Lifetime Adoption’s blog.
Lifetime Adoption’s dedicated, caring professionals work nationwide to connect birth mothers with loving adoptive families. If you have any questions about adoption, get in touch with us today by calling or texting Lifetime at 1-800-923-6784.
Making a Hospital Plan When You’ve Chosen Adoption [Video]
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What to Do When You’re Being Pressured Into Choosing Adoption
When facing an unexpected pregnancy, you may find yourself overwhelmed by well-meaning advice from those around you. Maybe your family, friends, or your baby's father are all suggesting that adoption is the best path forward. While their concern may come from a place...
5 Fun Facts About Adoptive Family Trung & Rachelle in Florida
I recently sat down with Trung and Rachelle, a faith-filled Florida couple hoping to be first-time parents through adoption. When you're considering adoption for your child, you have the opportunity to speak with and interview prospective adoptive parents before...
How to “Give Your Kids Up” for Adoption: What You Need to Know
If you find yourself wondering how to give your kids up for adoption because you’re struggling to care for multiple children, Lifetime is here to help. You are not a bad parent for thinking, “I don’t want my children anymore," and you're not alone. Many parents...
How to Explain Your Baby’s Adoption to Your Children
"I'm 25 and six months pregnant with my third child. Making ends meet is so hard with two kids, and I feel like it will be next to impossible with three! I'm probably going to give my baby up for adoption, but I'm worried about how to tell my other children. How can I...
How to Put a Baby Up for Adoption
We get calls, texts, and emails daily from women who want more information about how to put a baby up for adoption. If you're pregnant and considering adoption, feeling overwhelmed by all the information is completely normal and understandable. You may feel you don't...