Birth Parents Seeking Families

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We hear from pregnant women and birth moms, every day, who are looking for adoptive parents for their child. Many do not know what modern adoption can look like for them, others wonder if it is even possible due to drug use, a legal situation with the father, or the age of their child.

Our coordinators take time to answer each inquiry. Lifetime’s goal is to meet people where they are and help them with what they need to move to the next step, even if it isn’t adoption.

As prospective adoptive parents begin the adoption process, they often have an idea of what birth parents may be like. For example, they may believe that most birth mothers are teenagers or are abusing substances. Certainly, there is some of both, but neither describe “most” parents who place a child for adoption or their adoption situations.

The thing that all birth parents who make an adoption plan for their child have in common is love. They care deeply about their child, so much so that they will go through the grief and loss so that their child will have a better life than they can provide at this time. The other thing that most of them want today is ongoing communication to know how their child is doing. This can include updates via mail, email, text messaging, video chat and visits.

Are You Hopeful Adoptive Parents Looking for Adoption Situations

An important part of Lifetime’s program is that adoptive parents learn and understand the heart of a birth mother. As hopeful adoptive parents looking for birth moms, you need to be ready to embrace not only the baby or child, but also the birth mother as a vital part of her child’s story. Seeing the adoption triad as the “family of adoption” is truly the best way to navigate the journey of adoptive parents. So, as you begin your search for adoption situations, it’s good to keep that in mind.

Below, please find some of the available adoption situations we have recently received to let you see some of the prospective birth parents who we actively working with.

If you are Lifetime adoptive parents looking for birth mothers, you have been presented to available adoption situations that meet your preferences, and whom you in turn match what the birth parents are seeking. If you would like to be presented to additional birth parents seeking adoptive parents, please speak with your coordinator about opening your adoption preferences.

If you are NOT Lifetime adoptive parents looking for birth mothers, your first step is to complete Lifetime’s free application.

Please note, this list does not include all adoption situations as we receive those very frequently from birth moms who are looking for adoptive parents for their baby or child.

Current Available Adoption Situations

Please note that these are not all of the birth parents we are working with who are looking for adoptive parents.

This 31 expectant mother's due date is August 2023, and she lives in LA. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be Caucasian. (#1608)

This birth mother and birth father are united in seeking a Caucasian, Christian, married couple for their baby. This birth mother and father do not feel ready to parent and feel helping a loving couple grow their family through adoption is the right decision. The birth mother does not report any substance use during her pregnancy and will be apply for insurance and starting her prenatal care right away.

This 50 year old expectant mother's due date is June 2023. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be African American. (#1607)

These birth parents, facing an unexpected pregnancy, feel this is not the right time in their lives to parent a newborn. They are looking for a vibrant family to adopt their child. The birth mother will be starting her prenatal care shortly and looks forward to a healthy pregnancy. At this point, they are not looking for contact in the future.

This 21 year old expectant mother's due date is June 2023, and she lives in TX. The baby’s gender is female and the baby's race will be African American. (#1605)

This birth mother, with the support of the birth father, are looking for an African American, Christian family for their baby. Most importantly, the birth mother wants a loving family that she can get to know. Except for a small amount of alcohol consumption before she knew she was pregnant at four weeks, this birth mother reports no substance use. She is receiving prenatal care and is taking her prenatal vitamins.

This expectant mother's due date is August 2023, and she lives in AL. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be Caucasian-African American/African American. (#1599)

A loving home with a family that will cherish her child is what this birth mother is looking for for her baby. She has not reported any substance abuse and is receiving prenatal care and does have health insurance. This birth mother is hoping for updates such as letters and pictures in the future,

This 29 year old expectant mother's due date is June 2023, and she lives in CT. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be African American. (#1590)

This birth mother would like to get to know a warm and loving African American family through visits during her pregnancy. She has health insurance and is receiving prenatal care including taking her prenatal vitamins. She is unsure if she will need help with pregnancy-related expenses. She is interested in an open adoption to include visits.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 2 month old Caucasian/Hispanic girl. They live in CO. (#1587)

This birth mother, with the support of the birth father, is beginning to research her options with adoption for her two-month-old daughter. She feels that adoption may be what is best for her child. This birth mother reports no substance abuse during her pregnancy. She just wants a warm, loving home where her daughter can thrive.

This 34 year old expectant mother's due date is May 2023, and she lives in PA. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be Caucasian/African American. (#1585)

This birth mother, with the support of her family, would like to place her baby with a family who will love and cherish her baby. She experienced some substance use during the early stage of her pregnancy but is now getting prenatal care and is not using any substances at this time. She does have health insurance and is unsure if she will need any assistance with pregnancy-related expenses. This birth mother has not yet decided what kind of contact she will want in the future.

This 26 year old expectant mother's due date is July 2023, and she lives in TX. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be African American. (#1584)

This birth mother would like to place her baby with a loving African American family. She has not used any substances during her pregnancy and has started her prenatal care. This birth mother is currently parenting a young child and feels placing this baby is best for both her children. She may need help with some maternity clothing and other pregnancy-related expenses.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 1 year old African American girl. They live in AL. (#2867)

This single mom with older children is motivated to find the right adoptive family as soon as possible. She finds herself struggling financially and feels adoption is the best plan for the future of her daughter. She did not experience any complications during her pregnancy nor did she report any substance use. Birth mom is open to any race family whether they have children already, or not.

This 28 year old expectant mother's due date is May 2023, and she lives in IL. The baby’s gender is unkown and the baby's race will be African American / Caucasian. (#1580)

This single birth mother is looking to create an open adoption to include once a year visits. She is hoping to find a family willing to consider more than once a year visits, keeping in mind the best interest of this sweet little one. There has been some substance exposure during this pregnancy and she is going to begin her prenatal care soon. The birth mom is interested in any family that would accept this child as their own and would prefer a family outside of the state Illinois.

This 23 year old expectant mother's due date is March 2023, and she lives in IL. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be African American. (#3509 )

This birth mother feels she is not in a position to provide for her child at this time. She is in the United States for school. She would like to navigate an open adoption with the possibility of her returning home to another country after birth. She is seeking a married African American family.

This 25 Year old expectant mother's due date is April 2023, and she lives in CO. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be Caucasian. (#3508 )

This birth mother is considering adoption for her unborn child. She has struggled with mental illness and does not think she is in the best place to raise a child at this time. She would like a loving, stable Christian family with two parents. She would prefer a family in Colorado. She would like an open adoption with photo updates and visits.

This expectant mother's due date is March 2023, and she lives in AZ. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be Caucasian/Unknown. (#3506)

This birth mother is looking to give her baby a good home and be helped with housing while pregnant. The birth mom has ADHD, ADD, and a learning disability. She reports smoking cigarettes and denies any other substances. She is seeking a Hispanic family. She is homeless and would need financial help with housing, transportation, and other living expenses. She would like an open adoption with photo updates.

This 25 year old expectant mother's due date is April 2023, and she lives in FL. The baby’s gender is unknown and the baby's race will be African American/Hispanic. (#3507 )

This birth mother is early in pregnancy and considering her options. She has decided adoption may be best because her Fiance is not the child's father. She reports a healthy pregnancy so far. She would need assistance with rent, transportation, phone, and utilities.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 1 month old African American boy. They live in CA. (#2866)

This birth mother would love to find a family that is open to an Open Adoption with pictures and letters through Lifetime. She is also open to any race family though is not interested in meeting them during the transition period. She prefers a family in or near the southern states. She reports having had a healthy pregnancy without complications. She also reports her son to be healthy and thriving. She is not ready to be a parent at a young age.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 7 year old African American boy. They live in OK. (#3504)

This birth mother is considering adoption for her 7-year-old son. He is being tested for learning delays. Mom reports he has issues following directions at home and needs assistance understanding his academic curriculum, She would like an open adoption.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 3 year old African American boy. They live in SC. (#1574)

This birth mother is interested in an African American family. She will consider a single mom too. She describes her son as smart, sweet, and very playful. No known health issues were shared and she is looking forward to getting to know the family. She would like to meet the family before she agrees to move forward with the adoption. Open adoption is very important to her and she would like to get regular updates and phone calls. Also, she'd like to be able to get together once a year.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 2 year old Hispanic African American boy. They live in NV. (#1566)

This birth mother is interested in placing her son with a family financially secure with lots of time to spend with her son. Her son is healthy with some slight speech issues. An open adoption is very important to her and she wants to be sure the family is open to meeting her and her son before she agrees to move forward with the adoption. Also she would like to continue contact after placement with regular updates and a visit once a year. She would prefer the family live in a south eastern state.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 4 month old African American boy. They live in TX. (#3497)

This birth mother is looking over families to adopt her 4-month-old son. She reports he is healthy and up to date on vaccinations. She would like open contact to include visits.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 7 month old Caucasian boy. They live in MI. (#1560)

This birth mother is interested in an accepting family of any race. There are some special needs in her family so she wants the family to know this. Her son is healthy at this time though. Contact desired after placement will be an open adoption with regular picture updates, an occasional face time, and a visit once a year.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 5 year old Caucasian boy. They live in TN. (#1556)

This birth mother is interested in a Caucasian family with a lot of energy! Her son is healthy and very active so needs to be kept busy. She would like to meet the family and be able to spend time getting to know them. She is interested in an open adoption with regular photo updates and letters letting he know all that he is doing.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 4 Year old Caucasian boy. They live in NV. (#1555)

This birth mother is interested in placing her son with a Caucasian family. Her son is a healthy, happy, and typical 4 year old who loves to play. Her son is very active and she feels it would be great for him to be involved in sports. She would like to maintain contact with her son with regular photo updates, possible video call, and a visit once a year.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 5 year old African American boy. They live in IL. (#3489)

This birth mom is considering adoption for her five year old son. Birth mom reports no know medical concerns but there has been a lapse in medical care. She shared he has a speech delay. She would like an open adoption.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 1 year old African American girl. They live in NY. (#3488)

This birth mother is considering adoption for her 15 month daughter. She would prefer an African American family. She reports the baby is healthy and up to date on vaccinations. She would like an open adoption.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 9 months Caucasian/ African American male. They live in FL. (#5938)

Healthy Boy who is up to date on his shots. Birth mom feels incapable of taking care of him and doesn't have family help. The Birth Father only comes around when he chooses. She wants a better life for her son and would like an African American family to adopt him.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 4 African American/ Japanese female. They live in VA. (#5933)

This Birth Mother was in jail until recently. Her daughter has been with her grandparents while she was in jail. She doesn't want her daughter to be raised by grandparents and she wants her to have a real Mom and Dad. Her pregnancy was a result from assault and their is no Birth father involved.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 6 year old Caucasian/ Hispanic. They live in FL. (#5934)

This Birth Mother wants a better life for her 6 yr old son. She is a single mom and works a lot. Birth father is in prison for 15 years. Birth mom reports being on methadone while pregnant and her child spent 5 days in the NICU. Birth mom says her son is super smart but sometimes acts out at daycare. She would like to find a married couple. She feels her son needs a Mom and Dad.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 3 year old and 2 year old Caucasian girl and boy. They live in TX. (#1519)

This birth mother is interested in placing her daughter and son with a family of any race who are loving and financially secure. She is hoping the family has lot's of time to be able to spend with her children doing fun things like family vacations and sports. Her children are healthy and up to date on their check ups. She would like an open adoption with photo updates regularly and the ability to get together once a year.

This birth mother is hoping to place her 4 year old and 4 month old African American female/ male. They live in SC. (#5931)

Birth mother is a single mom to her two children. Her daughter is 4 yrs old and was diagnosed with mild Autism and is speech impacted. She doesn't communicate with words and is not potty trained. Her son is 4 months old, healthy, but born prematurely at 29 weeks. She hasn't talked to the Birth Father about adoption but thinks he will agree with what she feels is best for their children.

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“Dear Lifetime Adoption, about two years ago, I decided to place my child up for adoption. I was only 16 and realized that the best thing I could do for her was to place her with a family that could properly take care of her. Through this agency, I found an amazing couple and I can sleep peacefully at night knowing that she is loved and well cared for. I’m 18 now and have a job and a career I am pursuing through college. Now that I am working I can give back to the agency that was there for me when I was not in a financial situation to care for my daughter. I reached out through the contact page about how I could help and Diane let me know that clothes are needed (thank you Diane!) so included in this box are brand new t-shirts of various sizes, brand new leggings of various sizes, and a gently used shirt and pair of jeans that I wore during my pregnancy. I will continue to donate as much as I can! If there is anything else needed, please let me know! Thank you for changing my life :)”
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