Open Adoption: What is it?

Open Adoption Definitions and Rules

In an open adoption, the adoptive parentsand birth family share information about themselves with each other. They then remain in contact throughout the adoption process. Additionally, this leads to a much more connected experience in which you have control.

Unlike other types of adoption, open adoption allows birth parents choice throughout the process. You can:

• Choose your child’s adoptive parents
• Decide how you want things to go at the hospital
• Receive counseling and support
• Remain in contact with your child and the adoptive family in the future

Open adoption rules will vary with different states and parents’ wishes. In most open adoptions, birth parents and adoptive families meet prior to placement. They speak to each other through phone calls, emails, and sometimes an in-person visit. After placement, adoptive and birth parents continue to stay in contact.

In addition, these adoptions allow birth parents to choose the adoptive parents. They can speak with and meet them as they decide if adoption is right for them and their baby. Through open or semi-open adoption, birth parents may decide on the amount of contact they wish to have in the future.

Open Adoption Stories

We have so many wonderful adoption stories that share the benefits of this experience. Of course, every adoption is different and there is no standard setup.

Open adoption arrangements are flexible. Both the birth and the adoptive parents will agree upon the plan prior to the adoption. An adoption contact agreement can help set everything in stone.

Open Adoption vs. Closed Adoption

Open adoptions are a relatively new advancement in the adoption process. For decades, all adoptions were closed. This means that no contact occurs between the biological parents and those adopting the child. In many cases, there’s also no contact prior to the adoption.

Considering Adoption?

ChildWelfare.gov provides a helpful checklist for women considering open adoption, including:

• Do I want to have a say in who raises my child?
• Would it matter if you didn’t know whether or not your child was safe and healthy?
• Would I prefer to keep tabs on my child through photos, telephone calls, letters, or visits?
• Is it important to be able to tell your child about their family background?

We add: do I want to tell my child about family health history? If you answer yes to any of these questions, you should consider open adoption.

How Lifetime Adoption Can Help

Lifetime Adoption can help you create an adoption plan that’s right for you. Our adoption experts are available 24/7. In addition to their own knowledge and years of experience, they have access to the best resources nationwide.

At Lifetime Adoption, we’ve been supporting those making the loving choice of open adoption for many years. We were pioneers in the open adoption process. Our mission is to help birth parents and adoptive families come together to create an open adoption.

How Do I Start?

If you have any questions about the adoption process, please call or text us anytime at 1-800-923-6784. We can answer your questions, tell you how adoption works, and discuss the various types of adoption assistance available.

Remember: All services are free of charge to birth mothers at Lifetime Adoption.

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