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Young woman holding a babyThis is a tough question that no mother wants to have to ask herself. But if you find yourself thinking about adoption, it might just mean that you are in a bad situation and love your child so much that you want the best for them no matter what. Looking at adoption options might be the best solution.

What are some of the reasons a parent might choose adoption at this point? Financial reasons are a big one. Maybe there are other children in the house and not having enough money is making it impossible to care for them all the way you want to.

Maybe there is an abusive situation in the home, and you can’t guarantee a safe place for your child. If it looks like CPS might get involved and there’s a chance your child could be taken away, adoption might be a better alternative than losing your rights completely and having your child end up in the system. An open adoption lets you choose the family, and gives you the option to have contact again in the future.

Sometimes prison time can be a possibility for a mother. Rather than letting the courts decide where your child goes, you may want to find a good home for your child while you still have the option. These, among many others, are reasons that parents look into adoption options for older children all the time.

A popular myth about adoption is that people only want babies. This simply isn’t true. There are many loving adoptive families who specifically want to adopt older children. It doesn’t matter how old your child is when you are faced with these questions. There are many families who want to adopt older kids.

Open adoption is a great option for older children. This means that an adoptive family would take the child into their home and raise him or her as their own, but you would have the option to know the child as they grow.

When you start the open adoption process and sort through the many families who are interested in adopting older children. Getting to choose the family for your child is one of the greatest open adoption benefits. You can decide with the family you choose how much contact you’d like to have in the future. It can be as little as a simple letter delivered to the child when they are old enough to understand why they were adopted, or as much as regular visits and having a relationship.

The choices are yours. As hard as it can be to think about these things, there are people to help you. If we can help answer any more questions about choosing adoption for older children, visit Lifetime Adoption online or call 800.923.6784 to chat with an adoption coordinator.

Mardie Caldwell Certified Open Adoption Practitioner
Written by Mardie Caldwell Certified Open Adoption Practitioner

Mardie Caldwell, C.O.A.P., is nationally recognized as an expert on open adoption. A Certified Open Adoption Practitioner (C.O.A.P.), Caldwell is the founder of Lifetime Adoption Center, established in 1986. She has assisted in over 2,000 successful adoptions and was one of the first adoption professionals on the Internet.

Caldwell’s life work is dedicated to educating and helping birth parents find the right adoptive parents for their child. She spreads the word about modern adoption through speaking appearances, webinars, online resources, and as a podcast show host.

She has written several award-winning books, including So I Was Thinking About Adoption, the first book of its kind. There are many reasons women choose adoption, and this short book is a comprehensive resource to make the best plan for you and your baby. Caldwell wrote So I Was Thinking About Adoption as a handy guide to the details of the adoption process.

Caldwell has made over 150 media appearances, including ABC News, CBS News, Larry King Live, CNN Headline News, NBC’s The Today Show, CNN’s The Campbell Brown Show, NBC News, KGO Newstalk Radio, CNN’s Black in America II, MSNBC, Fox, PBS, BBC, and Dr. Laura.

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