Adoption comes with many amazing benefits not only for the birth parents and adoptive couple but for the kids, too. Adoption provides children with the opportunity to experience life in a way that their birth parents wanted for them.
And while there are certainly challenges along the way in raising an adopted child, it is important to remember that there are challenges in parenthood in general. It’s also important to recognize that the positive effects of adoption on the child far outweigh the negatives.
Adoption provides the child with a stable, loving home environment.
This is one of the most amazing positive impacts on a child who has been adopted. This could simply mean having a physical house that they can come home to every day. Or it could mean that the child has the financial resources needed to live in a way that the birth mother could not have provided.
Perhaps it means having healthy emotional support throughout the years or a reliable routine with opportunities for extras, like music lessons or after-school sports. Stability goes a long way. A family that welcomes an adopted child into their circle to love them unconditionally and show them a strong family model is a huge benefit.
Adoption provides opportunities for the child.
Adopted children are often more likely to have better educational support and personal success. Adoptive parents want to see their child succeed in every way — emotionally, educationally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. They help them reach goals, and they often provide them learning opportunities that help enrich them and tap into their natural abilities.
In the end, that translates to a child who grows into an adult who knows who they are and what they want out of life. Primary in this is growing up knowing the truth that they were adopted, chosen out of love. The birth mother, adoptive parents, and the adopted child can form a bond that lasts a lifetime.
Adoption provides the child with more love.
A birth mother choosing adoption wants only what is best for her child. Placing her child with adoptive parents is one of the most loving decisions she will make. She wants her child to experience unconditional love, no matter what the ups and downs of life bring. It is often said that adoption means more people to love your child.
And while she loves her child with her whole being, she knows that allowing her child the opportunity to experience more love from a family is something that will benefit her child. Choosing adoption does not mean she loves her child less; in fact, it demonstrates an even greater selfless love.
Adoption provides the child with a chance to fulfill their dreams.
Adoption creates a special space for the child to grow and thrive. They are given the chance to see and experience the world in a way that may not have happened without the adoption. This allows them to begin dreaming, even from a young age.
And because modern open adoption allows adoptive families to stay connected with the birth mother, the child will be able to live out their dreams with a well-rounded support system that encourages them every step of the way.
Adoption gives the child extra support throughout their lifetime.
Having people who love, support, and surround you during good times and bad is so important, especially for kids learning how to navigate the world. Choosing adoption gives the child an automatic extra support system. This is invaluable for a child. It helps women who are pregnant and considering adoption make the loving choice to begin the adoption process and put together an adoption plan.
If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy, our team of caring adoption coordinators can help answer your questions.
What will be your adoption story? Many people contact adoption agencies, not knowing quite where to begin. They know that adoption affects everyone in a beneficial way. And it begins when you make contact!
We have been helping families and expectant parents across the United States since 1986 and look forward to helping determine if modern adoption is right for you. Call or text us anytime at 1-800-923-6784.
As the Chief Operating Officer (COO) of Lifetime Adoption, Heather Featherston holds an MBA and is passionate about working with those facing adoption, pregnancy, and parenting issues. Heather has conducted training for birth parent advocates, spoken to professional groups, and has appeared on television and radio to discuss the multiple aspects of adoption. She has provided one-on-one support to women and hopeful adoptive parents working through adoption decisions.
Since 2002, she has been helping pregnant women and others in crisis to learn more about adoption. Heather also trains and speaks nationwide to pregnancy clinics to effectively meet the needs of women who want to explore adoption for their child. Today, she continues to address the concerns women have about adoption and supports the needs of women who choose adoption for their child.
As a published author of the book Called to Adoption, Featherston loves to see God’s hand at work every day as she helps children and families come together through adoption.